Love is a wild thing.  It can not be socialized or normalized.  It breathes and pulses and dances to the beat of the Universe.  To expect that Love will keep you safe and secure is utterly missing the point.  To truly, deeply love unconditionally means no safety net, no boundaries. 

In my nine years as a healer and seven years as a life coach, I’ve learned something simple yet profound:  the answer is Love.  I even have a bumper sticker on my car that proclaims this truth. All of the problems I’ve personally encountered have been due to me or someone I love feeling unloved [...]

Last week I wrote about this Na’vi greeting from the movie Avatar.  It’s “oel ngati kameie” and it means “I see you.”  Not just, “I see you over there,” but “I understand your soul.”  I’m still chewing on this, so I thought I’d write more about it.  Many cultures have words like this, the essence [...]

One of the most interesting things about romantic relationships is their ability to help us heal childhood wounds.  Men and women alike are deeply, and often repeatedly, attracted to a romantic partner who has many of the same traits as their parents or primary care-givers. 

2009 went out with a bang:  a full Blue moon, with a partial lunar eclipse, on the last night of the first decade of the 21st century (here in the U.S.).  In a nutshell, that means we were subjected to some pretty intense “letting go of the old” energy.  Did you feel it?