Uncertainty is torture.  It’s one of the most difficult things for people to deal with.  The old saying “the devil you know is better than the devil you don’t” keeps many people stuck in old relationships, in jobs they can’t stand, and living in parts of the world they don’t like.

I’ve been thinking about the process of manifesting what you want for the past few days.  Specifically I’ve been thinking about how, for me, sometimes it seems to work and sometimes it doesn’t.  And I’ve noticed that a key component to successful manifestation is becoming detached from how it will manifest.

Love is a wild thing.  It can not be socialized or normalized.  It breathes and pulses and dances to the beat of the Universe.  To expect that Love will keep you safe and secure is utterly missing the point.  To truly, deeply love unconditionally means no safety net, no boundaries. 

In my nine years as a healer and seven years as a life coach, I’ve learned something simple yet profound:  the answer is Love.  I even have a bumper sticker on my car that proclaims this truth. All of the problems I’ve personally encountered have been due to me or someone I love feeling unloved [...]

Last week I wrote about this Na’vi greeting from the movie Avatar.  It’s “oel ngati kameie” and it means “I see you.”  Not just, “I see you over there,” but “I understand your soul.”  I’m still chewing on this, so I thought I’d write more about it.  Many cultures have words like this, the essence [...]