Honoring Debbie Ford
Debbie Ford, author of several books on the shadow and one of my most influential early teachers, passed away on Sunday from cancer. I’ve spent much of the day reflecting on what I’ve learned from this gifted teacher.…
Category Archives: Shadow Work
That Crazy Subconscious!
I talk to a lot of people lately about their upper limits and limiting beliefs. It recently got me wondering, why does my subconscious mind do all this crazy stuff that sabotages my happiness? Why do we do this? I’ve spent a lot of time teaching people (starting with myself) how to stop doing the ...…
The Big Leap
Last week I read The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks. In the book Hendricks takes on a subject that many authors and coaches tackle: how to bust through your limitations and live the life of your dreams.…
Filling the Hole
This afternoon I was thinking about the things people do to feel the psychic or emotional hole they feel at the core of their beings. They overeat, they overindulge in alcohol, they shop compulsively. And by “they,” I mean me and you and all of our friends. We all do it to some degree. Sometimes ...…
Why Harry Potter Is My Hero
This morning I dreamt I was in the thick of a Harry Potter adventure. The scene was chaotic, and I was reeling from the news that I’d just flunked an exam. I was confused, disappointed, and I had no idea what we were supposed to do next. Yet everyone was looking to me for the ...…