Archive for the 'Sex&Romance' Category

The Problem With Faking an Orgasm

Wednesday, October 6th, 2010

I just read about another sex survey recently conducted by Indiana University.  In the study, 85% of men reported that their partner had climaxed the last time they had sex.  However, only 64% of women surveyed said they had reached orgasm the last time they had sex.  That’s a pretty big gap between the men’s [...]

Changing Old Habits for Better Sex

Saturday, October 2nd, 2010

Last time I wrote about how the mind is the largest sex organ in the body.  It creates a whole set of beliefs that make us act the way we do in all areas of our lives. Unfortunately, we are completely unaware of most of the beliefs we hold.  And worse, when we become aware [...]

What REALLY Keeps You From Having Great Sex?

Wednesday, September 29th, 2010

Everyone who’s anyone knows that having lots of great sex makes you feel better.  Having a healthy, regular sex life is good for the body, mind and the spirit.  Recent studies by Harvard University and iVillage have brought this to the public’s attention again, but we’ve known about the positive benefits of sex for decades. [...]

Six Ways to Spice Up Your Vacation

Thursday, August 19th, 2010

It’s vacation time!  Summer is in full swing and here in MA we’re having the warmest, sunniest summer I can remember.  It got me thinking about how to make a vacation getaway with your partner even steamier. Schedule a little time just for the two of you.  Send the kids to grandma’s (as we did [...]

Another Case for Non-Monogamy

Wednesday, August 11th, 2010

Dan Savage is a journalist for The Stranger; he writes an advice column called Savage Love.  I recently had the pleasure of watching a video clip of him, and I now think I’m in love.  He was talking about swinging and non-monogamy, and I know I found a kindred spirit.  Here are a few of [...]