Archive for the 'Sex&Romance' Category

Seven Ways to Celebrate Love All Year

Monday, February 14th, 2011

Whose idea was it to celebrate love one day of the year?  I can’t stand Valentine’s Day.  I know that might be a shock, seeing as how I’m a relationship coach, but hear me out. Having one day singled out to celebrate love takes the pressure off people to show their love all year round.  [...]

Are You Really Not In the Mood?

Saturday, February 5th, 2011

A funny thing happens when you’ve been with the same person for a really long time.  Even if you still like them a lot, you may find that you’re just not that into having sex with them… or so you think.  Your libido may be waning, or there are too many other details on your [...]

Variety is the Spice of Life

Wednesday, December 1st, 2010

Variety is the spice of life, right?  If that’s really true, then the way we approach romantic relationships pretty much dooms them to failure from the start. I’ve been talking with a number of people lately about how silly it is to ask a person to choose one sex partner for the rest of their [...]

After the Honeymoon is Over

Thursday, November 4th, 2010

     The honeymoon is over.  It’s inevitable, really.  The honeymoon is sustained by certain chemicals in the brain whose job it is to make us horny so we have lots of sex and procreate.  It’s all about survival of the species.  Once the kids come out, a new set of chemicals kick in.  The new [...]

The Problem With Faking an Orgasm

Wednesday, October 6th, 2010

I just read about another sex survey recently conducted by Indiana University.  In the study, 85% of men reported that their partner had climaxed the last time they had sex.  However, only 64% of women surveyed said they had reached orgasm the last time they had sex.  That’s a pretty big gap between the men’s [...]