Archive for the 'Sex&Romance' Category

Finding God In Sex

Friday, May 21st, 2010

As a Tantrika, I see God everywhere… but not like that kid in the Sixth Sense saw dead people.  Instead, I see everyone and everything as particles of divine consciousness. A therapist friend knows this about me and lent me a book called Fingerprints of God:  The Search for the Science of Spirituality.  In one [...]

What’s Your Type?

Monday, May 17th, 2010

A friend and I were talking about cheating this week and it got me thinking.  I realized that nearly everyone I know falls into one of four categories when it comes to being sexually faithful… or not.  Here they are:

Orgasms 101

Wednesday, March 10th, 2010

Last week I was doing some research on orgasms.  I was stunned to find that most of my search results came up with two types of female orgasms.  Most results referred to either clitoral or vaginal orgasms.  Those are certainly two types, but there are many more.  I’ve counted eight orgasms that directly relate to [...]

Eroticism is Not a Competitive Sport

Tuesday, February 9th, 2010

So many times couples focus on the Big O when they talk or think about their sexual encounters.  That’s typical for men, who tend to be goal oriented.  It’s also typical for women who are disconnected from their feminine essence or who have a lot of masculine energy in their make up.  Not that there’s [...]

Unleash Your Inner Freak

Monday, January 18th, 2010

One of the biggest complaints I get from women (and men) in long term relationships is that the sex has become either stale or non-existent.  There are lots of reasons for this:  busy lives, children, work related travel, and the fact that the more intimately you know someone, the harder you have to work to [...]