Archive for the 'making it work' Category

Eroticism is Not a Competitive Sport

Tuesday, February 9th, 2010

So many times couples focus on the Big O when they talk or think about their sexual encounters.  That’s typical for men, who tend to be goal oriented.  It’s also typical for women who are disconnected from their feminine essence or who have a lot of masculine energy in their make up.  Not that there’s [...]

Why Start With Sex?

Tuesday, February 2nd, 2010

You may have wondered why I often recommend rekindling the passion in your relationship.  Maybe you think you can’t even stand being in the same room as your partner, never mind letting him have sex with you!
There’s an interesting phenomenon that occurs when you allow eroticism back into a stalled relationship.  It’s based on the [...]

How To Have GREAT Sex

Tuesday, December 29th, 2009

Last summer a team of scientists published a paper in the Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality.  The team had interviewed both individuals having great sex and sex therapists to determine the qualities necessary for what they called “optimal sex”.  They identified eight key factors: 

Six Common Marriage Myths

Tuesday, November 3rd, 2009

There are six common marriage myths I’ve encountered.  These myths are true for the vast majority of all romantic relationships, whether married or cohabitating, gay or straight, young or old.  Avoid falling into these traps if you want to have a healthy and happy long term relationship.

Bacon Sex

Saturday, October 3rd, 2009

Flipping through a recent Cosmopolitan the other day, I was drawn to the title of an article called “Bacon Sex.”  You might think it was the Sex that drew me, but really it was the Bacon.  I am shamelessly addicted to bacon, and the thought of combining with another thing I adore was intriguing.