I’ve been witness lately to a number of strong, independent women who end up around the age of 40 experiencing a “mid-life crisis.” They decide that their husband or partner isn’t giving them what they need, and they want to leave the relationship. I think it has less to do with being in mid-life and [...]

I’ve been wrestling with the concept of independence for five years now.  I learned codependence really well as a teenager and young adult.  I did the traditional thing:  got married young (at 23) and did the untraditional thing by waiting until I was 30 to have a child… that’s right, just one child, on purpose.

So many people talk about looking for and finding their soulmates, but what does this really mean?  I’d like to take some time to explain what a soulmate really is and how you can increase your chances of finding yours. One myth is that there is only one soulmate for each of us.  On the [...]

In a society that makes marriage the Holy Grail, virtually every adult will be single at some point in their lives.  Because of the intense focus on marriage, very few of these adults will be prepared to be a successful single. There are many benefits to being single, but if you spend all your time [...]

As a Tantrika, I see God everywhere… but not like that kid in the Sixth Sense saw dead people.  Instead, I see everyone and everything as particles of divine consciousness. A therapist friend knows this about me and lent me a book called Fingerprints of God:  The Search for the Science of Spirituality.  In one [...]