Relationship Archetypes

by admin ~ November 30th, 2011

I’ve been thinking about archetypes in relationships a lot lately, mostly because I’ve been witnessing some interesting dynamics play out with friends and clients.  The thing is, dissension between archetypes in a relationship plays out when somebody (or both somebodies) isn’t taking responsibility for their actions. Continue reading »

My Favorite Cheap Date Night Recipe

by admin ~ November 23rd, 2011

This recipe is ridiculously easy and inexpensive, but looks impressive.

I call it Shrimp and Spinach a la Vodka

Ingredients:
1 box of pasta (I like penne or bowtie)
8-12 oz of spinach (you can substitute asparagus or another veggie)
1 lb shrimp, de-veined and raw (you can substitute cubed chicken or tofu if you don’t like shrimp)
1 jar of Italian pink vodka sauce (I like Newman’s Own)
1 tablespoon olive oil
salt, pepper and minced garlic to taste
Basil and/or parmesan cheese for garnish

Cook pasta according to directions.
As the pasta cooks, warm olive oil in a saute pan and add the shrimp.  Cook for 2-3 minutes* on med-high, then add vodka sauce and spinach.  Cook until the sauce is hot, spinach is slightly wilted and shrimp is cooked through (about 5-6 minutes).
Drain pasta and place in in a large bowl,  adding sauce mixture on top.  Toss and serve.  Garnish as desired.

*chicken needs to be cooked longer, at least 6-8 minutes (depending on size) before adding sauce

Yummy and impressive!  For best results, use large or extra large shrimp.

5 Cheap Dates

by admin ~ November 23rd, 2011

It’s no secret that times are tough. I just heard that we’re heading toward continued slow times, but no double dip recession. I’m not sure that’s all such reassuring news; I think the average person is still experiencing life as financially austere. Continue reading »

Let’s Talk About Trust

by admin ~ November 14th, 2011

I’ve just landed in Hawai’i after a week long drive from Massachusetts to California. My husband and I each drove our cars and shipped them to Hawaii from Oakland. It was a trip we’d planned for months, and then totally threw the plan book out the window as we moved closer to the end of the year. Continue reading »

The Reasons We Get Involved

by admin ~ November 8th, 2011

There are many reasons we get into relationships, and the real reason is almost never what we think it is.  Instead, we feel a sexual attraction, we find that we have some things in common with the object of of our attraction, and we end up in a relationship. Continue reading »