Archive for October, 2010

Relationship Quiz

Tuesday, October 19th, 2010

When you’ve been in a relationship for a long time, things change.  You settle into each other, getting more comfortable with each passing year.  But how can you tell if you’re comfortable, or just comfortably numb?  Is your comfort within the normal range for long term relationships, or are you ignoring warning signs that could [...]

This is Confusing!

Wednesday, October 13th, 2010

When you’re trying to decide whether to stay or go, you may be tempted to talk about your feelings with your partner.  Do yourself, and him, a favor:  DON’T.  Not unless you’re both sitting in front of a trained professional therapist or coach.

The Problem With Faking an Orgasm

Wednesday, October 6th, 2010

I just read about another sex survey recently conducted by Indiana University.  In the study, 85% of men reported that their partner had climaxed the last time they had sex.  However, only 64% of women surveyed said they had reached orgasm the last time they had sex.  That’s a pretty big gap between the men’s [...]

Changing Old Habits for Better Sex

Saturday, October 2nd, 2010

Last time I wrote about how the mind is the largest sex organ in the body.  It creates a whole set of beliefs that make us act the way we do in all areas of our lives. Unfortunately, we are completely unaware of most of the beliefs we hold.  And worse, when we become aware [...]