Archive for May, 2010

Big Love, Wild Love

Wednesday, May 26th, 2010

Love is a wild thing.  It can not be socialized or normalized.  It breathes and pulses and dances to the beat of the Universe.  To expect that Love will keep you safe and secure is utterly missing the point.  To truly, deeply love unconditionally means no safety net, no boundaries. 

Finding God In Sex

Friday, May 21st, 2010

As a Tantrika, I see God everywhere… but not like that kid in the Sixth Sense saw dead people.  Instead, I see everyone and everything as particles of divine consciousness. A therapist friend knows this about me and lent me a book called Fingerprints of God:  The Search for the Science of Spirituality.  In one [...]

What’s Your Type?

Monday, May 17th, 2010

A friend and I were talking about cheating this week and it got me thinking.  I realized that nearly everyone I know falls into one of four categories when it comes to being sexually faithful… or not.  Here they are:

Unrealistic Expectations

Thursday, May 6th, 2010

I’ve been thinking about all the cases of infidelity among famous people lately. I’ve also been thinking about the Catholic sex abuse scandal. Believe it or not, I think there’s a correlation between the two. Hear me out for a minute, ok? In both cases, unrealistic expectations have been placed on the offending parties. That [...]