Comments on: Sex and Intimacy: Is it All in Your Mind? http://romancerecovery.com/2009/07/03/sex-and-intimacy-is-it-all-in-your-mind/ Whether you go or stay, do it with courage, clarity, and ease Wed, 25 Jan 2012 17:53:29 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: Diana Daffner http://romancerecovery.com/2009/07/03/sex-and-intimacy-is-it-all-in-your-mind/comment-page-1/#comment-49 Diana Daffner Fri, 03 Jul 2009 17:56:54 +0000 http://romancerecovery.com/?p=269#comment-49 >>Kissing with your eyes open keeps you present, and it keeps your mind engaged in what’s actually happening, rather than letting it wander into fantasy land. YES, yes! When we stay engaged in the present moment, and our partner, our lover, is also engaged right here and right now, we move together into the magical realm of romance - real, honest, authentic romantic love that is the promise of every relationship. That promise, so powerfully vibrant at the beginning of a relationship, is so often lost in the day-to-day, year-to-year management of life. Getting it back is easier than most people think, and your tips are a good beginning. >>Kissing with your eyes open keeps you present, and it keeps your mind engaged in what’s actually happening, rather than letting it wander into fantasy land.

YES, yes! When we stay engaged in the present moment, and our partner, our lover, is also engaged right here and right now, we move together into the magical realm of romance – real, honest, authentic romantic love that is the promise of every relationship. That promise, so powerfully vibrant at the beginning of a relationship, is so often lost in the day-to-day, year-to-year management of life. Getting it back is easier than most people think, and your tips are a good beginning.

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